Scenario:
Girlfriend and boyfriend. Been in a relationship for 9 months. She mostly sleeps over his house. They have mutual friends. Not everyone knows they are in a relationship because they were friends for a couple of years before becoming monogamous. They like it like that. One weekend boyfriend goes out of town and leaves the key with one of there married mutual friends. When boyfriend comes back from out of town he finds out that mutual friend brought a bunch of people over hung out, slept with another girl in boyfriends room. Boyfriend says he was shocked and upset. But girlfriend does not believe that he is shocked. As mutual friends she knows that this type of situation has happened before just not during the time they have dated. Girlfriend is pissed because she feels it is disrespectful to her as his girlfriend. Even though they do not live together, does she have grounds? I feel she does. The boyfriend needs to grow a backbone and stand up to his friend and warn him that the behavior is unacceptable. Unless on the other hand he does not value the relationship. What do you think?
1 comment:
I think girlfriend might be a bit paranoid that because boyfriend's friend did such, boyfriend might be prone to that type of behavior or something similar. There are ways to go about it, including girlfriend telling boyfriend she didn't appreciate that, and that boyfriend needs to check his friend.
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