Im BACK

SO I have been out of the loop for a couple of weeks. Mainly because I was on a much needed vacation from work. So I was not always in front of the computer. Now that I am back what do I have to talk about......?......
Men... still not worth my breath
Friends...Good thing I have a real one
Family.. very draining, but I love them
Work.. still not what I like waking up to do
My hair... I cut it ALL off. I want to do something new for law school
Wigs... not yet comfortable with my boldness, so I am going in between
Godmother.. I am a new godmother to Miss Ayama, I am very proud to be there for her.
Ok I am sure there is more to say but since I am back to work these people are harassing me:)

Monday

Today will be a good day no matter what stupid some magazines publish. Yes the stock market is bad, banks are being rescued by the FDIC, elections are in a couple of months, but the New Yorker wants to publish "satire" Bull****.

Enough on that subject. I was listening to a song, well not really listening, moving to the beat. While listening to it, my cousin asked me why would I like such a song. "Bust It Baby" by Plies has a very good beat, but the words are horrible. I guess it means that I like a lot of songs that I do not know what they are singing/rapping about.

I'm just writing to avoid snapping on the New Yorker. I have already sent my email. The bad thing is that the picture is already in the eyes of the public.
BAD JOURNALISM

This song makes me think... I like it so much!!

India Arie-The Heart Of The Matter

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJb_Sq7_jjo&feature=related

Click on the link. I don't know how to add videos just yet to this blog spot.:)

What do you think?

Scenario:

Girlfriend and boyfriend. Been in a relationship for 9 months. She mostly sleeps over his house. They have mutual friends. Not everyone knows they are in a relationship because they were friends for a couple of years before becoming monogamous. They like it like that. One weekend boyfriend goes out of town and leaves the key with one of there married mutual friends. When boyfriend comes back from out of town he finds out that mutual friend brought a bunch of people over hung out, slept with another girl in boyfriends room. Boyfriend says he was shocked and upset. But girlfriend does not believe that he is shocked. As mutual friends she knows that this type of situation has happened before just not during the time they have dated. Girlfriend is pissed because she feels it is disrespectful to her as his girlfriend. Even though they do not live together, does she have grounds? I feel she does. The boyfriend needs to grow a backbone and stand up to his friend and warn him that the behavior is unacceptable. Unless on the other hand he does not value the relationship. What do you think?

Loving yourself

They say it all the time. You cannot expect anyone to love you if you cannot love yourself. When you think about it, this should come natural to anyone but what I see is that it maybe harder to some than others. What are the steps to loving yourself? I heard a joke by Kat Williams that I really thought about ( I know your thinking Kat Williams?!?) If you as a woman has reached 24-25 and to you every guy that you have ever dealt with is not sh** then maybe there is something wrong with you. That comment can be true. Maybe as women we are seeking out the wrong type of men because we really do not know what we want or what is our worth. This goes directly back to learning to love and understand yourself. Most importantly we need to learn what it means to be an independent as a single lady. I encourage us all to take a step back and think about this….